The Nanny State
Nothing is more stressful to a new mom than finding a nanny for her child when it’s time to let go. As they sit awake at night pondering the implications of their choice, thoughts inevitably lead to ‘Will this decision forever change the life path of my little Fauntleroy?!?’
Probably not, but I’m a 20-something dude writing copy and living with three roommates in Bushwick. What I do know, …from my sis’, is that even if it’s not quite so momentous, finding a good nanny in NYC is still a difficult ordeal.
That’s why I recommend you start your search on Tenant King. First of all, you’ll be getting recommendations from your neighbors, all of whom are verified. Therefore they are willing to put their reputation on the line to help their nanny find a new gig. Because the last thing they’d want to do is run into a disappointed mother on the local playground. If you think getting between a mama bear and her cubs is dangerous…
Of equal importance, your neighbors are more likely to incorporate your own ‘state of mind’ in the traits they are looking for in a nanny. The fact is there are subtle but important differences between say, Park Slope and the Upper East Side.
Finally, location matters. Since your nanny will most likely be working for you five days a week, her daily commute should be a major factor in your decision making. You don’t want the unhappiness of a long haul reflected in your child’s caretaking. Plus, promptness plays a critical role in handing off the baton. The last thing you want to get as you’re scrambling out the door for a meeting, is a text from your nanny saying she’s running ‘10 mins late.’ Basic fact: the shorter the commute and the fewer the transit switches, the more likely your nanny will be ‘en punto’ on any given day.
Oh, and one more thing. Having a nanny that’s already worked in a given neighborhood, means she knows the in’s and out’s of it, many of which you as a harried mom may have yet to discover. It also means she’s probably friendly with the other nannies in the area, making it easier for your child to meet and mix with other kids his or her age.
All great reasons to search locally via Tenant King. And that my friends, is all the advice I can provide on this topic. Which is a lot more than I can say about how to change a diaper.