There are two distinctive approaches to solving problems: Creating a plan and working through it; re-planning as difficulties ariseCreating a loose sketch and letting the plan assemble on the go as the real details often remain hidden As both approaches are completely valid, they can be the source of major conflict. The planners might think... Continue Reading →
On Pushing Through
What do you do when your motivation is nothing but a faint memory and everything feels like hitting a concrete wall with bare fists? How can we overcome when life feels heavy? First off, I want to tell you: everything we try for the first time will not be glorious or easy or fun. We... Continue Reading →
The Balance
Revenge or reason?Fear or preventive action?Guilt or allowance?Diligence or idleness?Tomorrow or right now?Egoism or empathy?Blame or responsibility?Pride or humility?Ignorance or resonance?Spitefulness or compassion?Conflict or compromise? Judging or observing? Question or statement?
Escaping from complexity
What if it was easy?" I use this question a lot recently. Assembling a thesis brings up all sorts of thoughts that can escalate into an overthinking inferno. - Did I leave out an essential topic? - I read something interesting; shall I add a paragraph about it? - Is this part thoroughly covered? ... Continue Reading →
An End to Emotional Hell
No matter how you feel, chances are your thoughts are quite focused around it. Talking from my perspective, there was some point in time where I learned to be highly aware of my negative emotions. Following this pattern gives me a reliable downward spiral right into avolition. These emotions take me back to how I... Continue Reading →
Face Fear
Fear is actually our greatest helper.
Your Pace
When something is for sure that there is a rhythm in what we do. Sometimes it is fast, sometimes slow. What counts the most though is finding an occupation that fits our style of doing things; freedom to choose. Lift the guilt from your shoulders that this or that should be done by date x.... Continue Reading →
Get The Exciting Life You Need – A Primer #19 [Feed 2021]
We live differently when we do what makes our eyes glow.
How to meet the right People #18 [Feed 2021]
We attract what we think we need; even if it disgusts our own minds.
Knowledge, Beauty & Courage – Why we shy away #17 [Feed 2021]
What do knowledge, beauty and fractals have in common? A whole lot! This approach may change your thoughts about knowledge and bravery.
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